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I'm leaveing the forum.

Holly12

Holly12

Sensitive Lady.
Hi all I know that alot of you on here think I'm younger then I say Iam and that my spelling is not good or how I say words. I have some very speical needs when I was born I had very bad brain damage and so with that I have speech problems and a hard time understanding others. I go to a very speical needs center for people like me alot of people call us alot of names and hateful names but we try to make it day by day. It is so hard to be apart of this world when you know your normal. It is very hard to be on forum like this one and knowing others think is this lady normal or not?. I love being on this site and enjoy everyone on here but if I know that I'm not helping matters with my spelling or how I say things then this forum is not for me. It is not fair to have you all have to deal with what I have problems with I don;t want to make everyone on here upset or mad because of my speical needs I have. I wanted to share this and so others on here might understand why I say or not spell the right way.
 
Holly, no one wants you to leave :(
I'm sure no one meant to make you feel uncomfortable, and if they did I am sure they did not understand. I know lots of people in my school zoo program that have had a lot of health issues through out their lives and they speak differently, but they are just the same as every one else on the inside- passionate about their animals and what they are doing.
I'm sure no one meant any harm.
 
AliCat37 said:
Holly, no one wants you to leave :(
I'm sure no one meant to make you feel uncomfortable, and if they did I am sure they did not understand. I know lots of people in my school zoo program that have had a lot of health issues through out their lives and they speak differently, but they are just the same as every one else on the inside- passionate about their animals and what they are doing.
I'm sure no one meant any harm.
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I know it is not anyone problem but I do not want to make others on here uncomfortable and that is what I'm doing.
 
Holly12 said:
I know it is not anyone problem but I do not want to make others on here uncomfortable and that is what I'm doing.
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Please stay Holly. Dont be silly, we love snakes here and what is so "normal" about that? No one is completely normal anyway. Normal is highly overated.

You are nice and friendly and some of us just wanted to understand. Please don't be sad or run away.
 
I hope you change your mind, I have no clue what normal is lol I have a bad ok severe chem inbalance and things so yeah not normal here. what ever you decide to do best of luck
 
Holly,
Please don't leave! I understand all your special needs, I am a mother of special needs child. If anyone is making fun of you or being rude let someone know. It is disgusting how some people treat others on this forum. You are not making me uncomfortable and we are all here to learn!
Please reconsider leaving!
 
*sigh*, this is -exactly- why I usually try to tone things a notch... you never know whose on the receiving end and what they have been through.
You have more than enough right to be here just as anyone else. I think it would be best to inform the forum moderators in order to avoid similar misunderstandings- sadly, they have no way of knowing your story if you don’t tell it yourself.

I am sorry you feel uncomfortable, though I am not aware of the grounds for it…

Hope you feel otherwise in a couple of days,

Oren.
 
crotalis40741 said:
I hope you change your mind, I have no clue what normal is lol I have a bad ok severe chem inbalance and things so yeah not normal here. what ever you decide to do best of luck
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Yup Holly see this guy? We had a misunderstanding awhile back, and he thought about doing just what you want to do....and I am so so so so glad he didn't!!!! And we are pretty good friends now I think. So glad I know him (and I got to meet him in Daytona too!!).
He is also a really really nice person and a fantastic breeder too.
 
We'd love to see you stay! :)

I'll bet you enjoy your snakes and do enjoy hanging out with people who have them as well.
It's also fun to see people's pictures and read their stories.
Most people here are very nice when you get to know them and may just have a gruff exterior.
Remember, there are often a lot of people that join and do things to annoy others intentionally and it's hard to determine who is genuine and who is not.

I don't think anyone knew your condition. Maybe next time you join a forum, I suggest making a remark as such on your profile/dashboard so that others may see if they are curious. It would help them understand you better!

You are a very sweet person and deserve happiness just like everyone else!
 
I want to stay but I want to make sure that I'm not making anyone on here uncomfortable and if that is what I'm doing then staying on here is not making me feel comfortable. I try to be the best person I can be and yes I have alot of love for my 2 baby corns. And want to be with other on here who are like that too if anyone on here wants to know anything about the problems I do have please ask me I don't mind telling you Iam a easy person to talk too.
 
Holly, as the ONLY friend on my friend list you CAN'T leave. That would mean I would have any friends.

You have always said very nice and comforting words to me. Always making a comment on my posts when you see that noone has and they just drop in to see.

So there you have it, you can't leave. That's it That's all. :(
 
PAIN said:
Holly, as the ONLY friend on my friend list you CAN'T leave. That would mean I would have any friends.

You have always said very nice and comforting words to me. Always making a comment on my posts when you see that noone has and they just drop in to see.

So there you have it, you can't leave. That's it That's all. :(
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LOL Pain you got me to laugh a little bit and made me smile thanks for that I needed it. Okay I won't go I will stay I see that I have some people on here that do understand. ;)
 
Holly, I am glad you've decided to stay.
This is a reminder to all of us that we don't know the whole story & there might be reasons for the way someone talks or acts.

Plus, this way, that crazy Canuk won't end up friendless ;)
 
Hi Holly!

I am not sure what threads you are referring to, but I am sure there are times when threads go awry for almost everyone, lol! Also, keep in mind that sometimes it is difficult for people to tell whether a poster with communication problems is somebody for whom English is a second language, somebody who is dyslexic, or just somebody too hurried (or lazy, lol!) to bother to write properly. Your posts seem much better written than some I have seen here! But once people realize that there is a reason, I think they will look at mistakes in a different light. Nobody knows until you tell them, though! Of course, ALL of us make some mistakes when writing, even when trying to be careful. I tend to be too long winded myself. So you have plenty of company!

If a person writes poorly only because they are too lazy or don't care enough to check their posts, I personally look at it as showing a bit of disrespect for the time others spend reading (or sometimes, deciphering) their posts. But if I find that they have a particular reason for writing as they do (such as the limitations I mentioned), then I really admire them for taking the time and effort to try to do the best they can within whatever limitations they have. That is just my own feelings - others may feel differently. But I do hope that you will find the community here as helpful and accepting as I have found it to be. I certainly welcome you to continue here as you seem to be a friendly and open person - just the kind of people we need here.
 
Holly... The spelling issue is easily solved with the spell checker and using google..
Christ, you should see my spelling without it... LOL
 
kathylove said:
Hi Holly!

I am not sure what threads you are referring to, but I am sure there are times when threads go awry for almost everyone, lol! Also, keep in mind that sometimes it is difficult for people to tell whether a poster with communication problems is somebody for whom English is a second language, somebody who is dyslexic, or just somebody too hurried (or lazy, lol!) to bother to write properly. Your posts seem much better written than some I have seen here! But once people realize that there is a reason, I think they will look at mistakes in a different light. Nobody knows until you tell them, though! Of course, ALL of us make some mistakes when writing, even when trying to be careful. I tend to be too long winded myself. So you have plenty of company!

If a person writes poorly only because they are too lazy or don't care enough to check their posts, I personally look at it as showing a bit of disrespect for the time others spend reading (or sometimes, deciphering) their posts. But if I find that they have a particular reason for writing as they do (such as the limitations I mentioned), then I really admire them for taking the time and effort to try to do the best they can within whatever limitations they have. That is just my own feelings - others may feel differently. But I do hope that you will find the community here as helpful and accepting as I have found it to be. I certainly welcome you to continue here as you seem to be a friendly and open person - just the kind of people we need here.
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Thanks Kathy for your nice comment I really do try hard to do the right things and sometimes just does not come out right.
 
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