*deep breath*
Well..I bought this snake in May 2002 as a potential mate for Hecate. So that would mean I bought it as a male. I loved the colors in the ad and thought it'd be a nice compliment to test out Anery with Hecate.
Fast forward to May 2003, I'd just found Hecate in March outside after her 8 month hide-and-seek adventure and I thought she was ovulating. So I placed her in with Frost to see. Nothing. Frost just curled up in a ball to get away from the other crawling snake. I pondered and placed Hecate in with Diablo to see what his reaction was, and before I could even really grab her they were hooked up. Looked like it was destined for them that year.
Fast forward to 2004, Hecate was ovulating again and thought I'd try out Frost once more. Maybe he was shy the first time and didn't have a clue what he was put on Earth for. So I place her in there, same reaction as the previous year. A tie for a bump on a log. So I think for a second and recall reading where adding in another male usually sparks a reluctant male to action. I placed Diablo in and after everting his hemipenes, he went straight for Frost and start to do the "Wiggle Dance". I think nothing of it, "just snakes asserting their dominance like female dogs can do"...until Diablo tries to lock up with Frost and I think..."oh no...no gay snakes in my collection" and break up the party. I remove Frost and Diablo eventually courts Hecate to indicate her willingness. But Orion was to fertilize any eggs that year, which he did.
After her first clutch, I placed her with Frost again..and still nothing. I place her back with Orion, and they immediately lock up. So I was just about to make plans for someone to knit me a rainbow colored snake sweater for Frost for the winter.
Then just here recently, I'd noticed Frost plumping up in the usual spots a female would. And I hadn't fed him anything bigger than a couple of hopper mice 12 days ago (waiting for next batch to grow) and I knew it wasn't fecal matter as he'd done a big dooper a few days ago. So I lay him down on the floor and let him crawl across my hand as I gently squeeze and lo and behold...is that what I think those are? Feels like pearls on a string. None of my other males have ever had anything remotely feeling like that.
I test Frost out with Diablo and Orion, but both are in the depths of blue phase right now and aren't interested in food let alone sex. So I think around and figure one of my 2002 males might be mature enough to let me know if my hunch is right. So I pick Kingsford my charcoal and stuff Frost in his container. After a few tongue flickers my hunch is confirmed and the dance begins.
Frost just lays there and lets little ole Kingsford do his thing. And trust me, everyone is small compared to Frost.
Sometimes they say proof is in the pudding, well I don't know what kind of pudding this may be...but here the proof be:
So this clears up a LOT of questions I've had since I've owned him/her. Mainly the fact of bulking up every spring no matter how much or little I've fed.
Just goes to show you, always confirm the decision after buying the snake, don't take anyone's word for granted. Everyone can make mistakes.
Update: The proof "pudding":