John 3:16, do an internet search for people who capture and relocate wild animals in your area, wildlife rehabilitators, veterinarians, and even local pet stores can sometimes help you get into contact with these people. Keep in mind that they may be willing to travel, so even if they're located out of town you may have some luck.
If you read the thread, they did now find someone that is willing and able to come relocate any other snakes that they find in the vicinity, so they do have a plan for next time.
I think the biggest thing this thread has done (besides some interesting conversation) is make those that may not have considered having a plan if they encounter a venomous snake to consider having something in place.
For example KNOWING where an empty trashcan and broom is, if the snake is in an area where it could be easily moved. (In a barn full of bales with loose hay everywhere, not exactly an easy task)
Seeking out and knowing IN ADVANCE, someone you can call to remove a venomous snake.
My advice to J3 was to ask around town, there's almost always a loony snake guy that's willing to come out and move snakes, especially in out of the way hicktowns. WHich they did and they found someone! So that is awesome.
Snakemaster, in all due respect, one day it will be your children... Whatever life experience you *think* you have, it all changes when you have your own babies.
My seven year old has ADHD and sensory issues. As part of that he has very very little impulse control. He's grown up around dogs, even powerful breeds such as pitbulls. I've DRILLED into him from day one, DO NOT ever EVER touch or approach an unknown dog, and he still has problems, he doesn't think, he just acts. He LOVES my snakes, and handles my ball python, however I still always have to remind him to move slowly and carefully, and he's GROWN UP around snakes... He needs constant supervision, and I am glad that we now live in an area where there are no poisonous snakes, because he is so fascinated with them that I am not %100 sure that he would act the way that J3's kids did and come get me if he saw a snake, he could very easily get carried away and try and catch it...
Depending on the circumstances, I would attempt to relocate a hot if I came across one, but I also would not hesitate for a SECOND to dispatch said snake if it was in an area that wasn't safe to try and capture it.
Older children yes, are capable of making a rational decision and being careful of said snake, but it still is NOT is a safe area, for it or the children, and younger children under age 5, do not have the maturity to make a common sense decision about a snake, and often do not have the maturity to always be on the lookout for one. They have one track minds and very little common sense. A MATURE six year old MIGHT be able to make a rational decision, but I can assure you that most children this age or younger do not yet have the capability of such decisions.
I found this site:
http://www.copperhead-snake.com/
in particular please take a look at the pictures halfway down the page of the results of a snakebit to a FINGER... Copperhead venom is hemolytic, it actually causes cells to EXPLODE, causing severe damage. This will leave lasting scars, permanent damage, and probably chronic pain...
I understand that the chances of a bite are low, however, is the damage you see on the page above something that you are willing to inflict on your little niece/nephew that you mentioned caring for?
I think that is all that people are getting riled up about, is the fact that you seem to not care at all about the damage that snake could cause, your ideals are somewhat "rose tinted" and live and let live is certainly a great way to approach things, but understand that ATTACKING a parent for protecting their children is very low class.
The OP has a plan for next time, they are obviously concerned with the wildlife they encounter, which is why they posted here in the first place wanting to know how they could avoid killing the next hot snake they find, for which I commend them! They did the right thing with their current knowledge and next time a snake they encounter might get lucky and be relocated to a safer location.