Last year, breeding Torandre (ghost het amel) to Dier (amel het anery) gave me 15 eggs... and no normals. The odds of that were under 1%.
Yes, freaky things happen sometime. But if we're playing that card, why does *anyone* ever buy possible hets? After all, you could *never* get that het to show up even if it's there, right? So why pay more money for possible hets? Why pay more money even for 100% hets if they might not pop up. I will from now on demand to pay normal amel prices for amels het peppermint stripe, as I might never end up with a striped amel or a peppermint, much less a peppermint stripe.
Stargazing also doesn't act *like* a simple recessive trait. It *is* a simple recessive trait. And it is something that we should try to control as best we can. The horses may have left the barn, but we can fix the doors, fix the protocol of checking those doors, and catch some of those horses. Just because they eat, grow, and breed does not mean they should be ignored or not treated as a problem. My hydrocephalic puppy ate, grew, and could have bred. And had an increased chance of producing more hydrocephalic puppies.
Or look at it like merle aussies. Why is generally considered unethical for someone to breed two merle aussies together (1 in 4 chance homozygous, lethal-white) when the odds of producing a lethal white are so low, many lethal whites don't make it to birth anyway, and those that survive often do quite well despite being blind and/or deaf.... but not unethical for us to breed potential carriers of stargazing? Why is it perfectly ethical to not try to get that "yes" or "probably not" answer?