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Originally Posted by snakemaster24
It never takes skills! Its called search. All i am sayign is it seems like the only posts she finds it neseccary to post on are ones where I get a new animal OR when she thinks I am in a corner....
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Well, as you've been told in the past, it's a matter of first impressions and consistency. Remember this when you get your first job... that first impression WILL last a lifetime (on here it's just inconvenient-- in life it can be devestating). Also realize that there are a LOT of people who have backed you up in the past only to have you unhinge yourself again... someone said a few weeks ago it's sometimes like you cannot decide if you want to be David the child or David the young adult. David the young adult can be fun to talk to and posts interesting and informative threads. David the child is... well... childish. And not so fun.
I've seen more of David the young adult lately. I even repped you on a particular post a few days back. Maybe this is a turning point for you in your life. A lot of people hope it is... BUT... many of us have been burned by hope in the past with regards to you.
Be consistent in your young adult behavior. Be polite. Be thoughtful. It will take time, but in the end it will be worth it.