Welcome kayjaypah! You heard right. Don't worry, the baby will start to get used to you soon enough. The little one needs some time to settle in. Though some people have a different opinion I think the vast majority of us leave our snakes strictly alone for at least 4 days after a move.
Why you ask (well you didn't but most of us do)? One is to let the snake rest from the stress of transport. Another is to let the snake explore and get used its new home in peace. Another is in case it was fed and is still digesting (especially possible from a pet store). Another is if the snake is in shed and you can't tell because they have cleared. (I have three snakes and two of them shed during the "rest" period.) Another is that if it is in error, it is better to err in giving your snake less stress than more.
As to handling, as soon as the rest period is over you can handle briefly each day your snake is not digesting or in shed. Small babies are skittish and both get used to handling and outgrow it. At a year your snake will be much more confident. Don't be surprised if your snake is rather skittish for months in spite of your gentle handling. This doesn't bother people who have experienced it before, but can be disconcerting to a new snake parent. Hiding is a baby's only defense so it is very deeply ingrained. Don't take it personally. Your snake will get used to you in time and will eventually know you mean no harm.
Most of us take a brief moment to examine the snake, hold it and take a picture or two when we first bring it home and then we strictly leave it alone for that rest period except for cleaning poop, shed, or supplying fresh water.
Best wishes. The rest period will go by quickly and when you look back years later it will seem like nothing at all.
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