My issue is rather simple really,
So is mine
In order to express an opinion, you don't HAVE TO always do so in a way that suggests that others' opinions are not as valid as yours.
No I don't. And I absolutely did not in this case. In fact, here is your original response--
I wouldn't really refer to an animal I keep in a locked enclosure, that can seriously harm me and that I cannot handle a "pet"... that's just terminology, true, but that's the point most of us are talking about... sure you can keep them out of interest or attraction... but they are by no means "safe" nor can be interacted with as one would interact with a pet.
YOU are the one that says (and I quote), "...that's the point most of us are talking about..." which is absolutely placing your own personal opinion as the opinion of "most".
You can say "In my opinion your definition is narrow" or as you chose to say it "Your definition is far too limited".
Actually, what I chose to say is, "
I think your definition is far too limited..." So inessence, I said almost precisely what you would have liked me to say. Stating "I think" is the same as saying "In my opinion", it just takes less time...
See above...
Setting that aside though, instead of suggesting that perhaps I misunderstood you- you eagerly reply in a manner which I find quite impolite.
Really? I find someone telling me that I am being condescending and arrogant when I am not quite impolite. Just because our opinions are different does not mean I "attacked" you or "bashed" your opinion. I made referances which are acceptable as "pets" by definition yet do not fit YOUR definition of "pet". That's not "bashing" your opinion...it's countering your points. Don't take it so personally...
You have a tendency to be aggressive with your opinions, and I am not the first to say that to you.
Many people have a tendency to be aggressive with their opinions. However, in this particular instance, I was NOT being "aggressive"...merely pointing out where our opinions differ, and showing you precisely why I find our definition of "pet" limited.
Allow me to correct any impression I may have left that I was hurt- I was not. I simply find both your tone and manner unpleasant and therefore would rather save myself a debate such at this one.
I don't care if you were "hurt" or not. I find your reaction to be far too sensitive.
Also, I remind you that -you- chose to quote me, not the other way around- so please refrain from blaming me for something I did not want. Unfortunately it wasn't entirely in my hands and I usually respond to someone who directly quotes me.
I chose to quote you because I disagreed with your opinion, and chose to state my own opinion to the contrary. I didn't "blame" you for anything. You told me I was being condescending. I was not not. Really a very simple misunderstanding that you cannot seem to acknowledge.
At this I am really bringing my side of things to an end- continue to respond as much as you want.
Have a pleasant day,
Oren.
It never ceases to amaze me how some people will make wildly accusatory statements, than bring "their side of things to an end". You made accusations against me. You were wrong. That's not an opinion, that's a fact.
The truth of the matter is, Oren, that my original response to you was neither arrogant nor condescending. If you took it that way...you were being too sensitive. I stated my opinion AS an opinion, and made a point to acknowledge that it was a personal opinion. I used other widely accepted "domestic pets" as supportive evidence for my opinion. You took offense to it, for whatever reason, and got bent out of shape about "my tone".
My "tone" was one of opinion, supported by widely accepted definitions that ALSO refute your opinion. Call it whatever you want, but the reality is you got bent out of shape for no reason...
And now you are trying to save face by making statements like "I am not the first to tell you this..." or other such nonsense. The fact that I have pissed in a few cornflakes over the years doesn't change the fact that you overreacted to my reply, and got bent out of shape for no reason. Don't turn this into something it isn't...:nope: