Lauren: Just reading you have Asperger's. And after that one person being rather rude, I thought I would drop a line. If you wish to talk to someone who has the same condition and is a really great guy go to www.edmontonreptiles.com click forum and look for a guy named Lordoftheswarms. He has been through alot of what you are going through on here. Plus you will probably never meet a guy with more knowledge on reptiles than him. Anyways, just thought I would drop a line of support.