agreed with the above, also put your hand in slowly and slowly move towards your buddy and hold still for a few seconds so it can get a chance to find out who you are, after a while it won't be so sketchy, also remember to end the handling session on a good note, meaning after he slithers away from your hand close the lid and let that be the end of it, so if you had to move anything to get at him replace it while he is out