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Letter's you'd love to write but never would.

danielle

danielle

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I am stealing this idea from another forum I belong to because I have found it a great to say things we need to say without actually saying them. I'll start...

Dear beloved fiance,
I know I am worthless these days and can not help out around the house. I know there have been entire months I am in the hospital and not here to support you in parenting....you've done an awesome job in my absence and I am thankful for you and your devotion to our family- most guys would have headed for the hills. However, when you say I cleaned the bathroom please know that includes more than the toilet and bathtub. Counters, floors, and sinks that are in the bathroom are included in this chore I promise. I also notice you consider walking the dogs letting them out to run for 15 minutes while you almost engage by throwing a ball. Honey our dogs are both large high drive animals and need a lot more exercise more than once a day- they are driving me mad. I also appreciate the fact you have been caring for my reptiles even though they scare you and you hate them. However, I wish you would change their water more than once a week and not slam their cages shut the minute they come out to see you. They are not scary:)

Dear Colon and small intestine,
I am glad the doctor is letting you guys stay for now, but if you don't start acting right soon I will have to kiss you goodbye and my life will suck even more than it does now. I resent the fact you have made me an absent parent and have put me in the hospital for weeks at a time, I resent the fact I take more meds than an 80 year old and they make me feel like crap, and lastly I resent the fact I can't enjoy cooking anymore because I can not eat
without experiencing pain and frequent trips to the bathroom. You have ruined every attempt at a vacation, made me look like I have an eating disorder, and made my attempt at an education a joke. I have a degree I can not use until you straighten yourself out and am missing moments I can not get back. I have missed too much time with my family and friends please oh please start responding to these pills and give me my life back- I was really happy:(
 
I cannot possibly write a letter as meaningful and heartfelt so I really just wanted to bump the thread - I don't know what to say though. I will pray for you to get better and your letters and prayers be answered. I sincerely hope that things will get better for you Danielle. I'm glad you have somebody to help with snakes and the rest but if you need any more help or if there is anything we can do I know the community at cs.com will step up.
 
I have actually been home for almost a week which is the longest stint home in many months- I am truly thankful as lame as it sounds. At first I was just angry and bitter, but a year later I am in a twisted way thankful this all happened. A year ago I was tired of my back and forth relationship and ready to bolt as soon as school was done- 9 years felt like 9 years too long. Funny how tragedy makes all the little things stick out I had missed or forgotten. I can say my fiance and his family have definitely shown me how lucky I am to have them in my life. They have been there for me, my kids, and mini zoo in ways I can not describe or even could expect. I hope to continue to be able to be home with them through Christmas until my one surgery some time in January:)
 
It seems plenty of people can live very well lives while missing part of their digestive systems. Good luck with whatever you go with; just the occasional upset stomach drives me mad.

I can't really think of anything to add right now... although I am pretty irked at those ASFs I bought. Had two get cannibalized and they never grew to breeding size so I culled them earlier. The damn things just wouldn't die right away either. :/
 
Danielle, I know the whole situation sucks, but I see people who have had that surgery in my work, quite often, and it is usually a huge relief from what those organs were inflicting while they were there. If it comes to that. I hope the medication just works.
 
I hope the meds work too,lol I was hoping other people had letters to add to this thread. Irritating drivers cut anyone off, lazy hubby/wife, crazy children....anyone?
 
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