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My Ultimate Darling. Missy

Missy

loves her little darlings
well as some of you may have read somewhere i have a very ill female corn snake of 8 years old. she has had 3 ops in the past, 2 for being egg-bound (she was unable to lay her eggs) and the latest to remove a lump on her kidney, which to start of with they thought she was badly constipated so they operated to remove whats clogging her up, only to find a huge lump on her kidney, she hasnt eaten for 4 months, is extremely thin for a 5ft snake, was spasming whenever anything came into contact with her, and we had to tube feed her food supplements twice a day, well for the past week she couldnt keep anything down and today was ultra bad, the worst day ever today.
got missy out as she was bashing her head against the side of her tank and noticed that her stitches seemed to be swollen, she couldnt stop jolting her whole body, my mum just couldnt believe what she was seeing, she was seriously jolting her whole body and it was terrible to see. so i called the vet and he said to come up in 30 mins and he'll take a look over her. by the time i got there, she was soo bad, she was continuously regurgitating and couldnt control herself. i was terrified for her, she kept on opening her mouth and making these god awful noises, it wasnt right, when the vet was holding her, her body was upside down and her head and neck was all twisted, she couldnt control it anymore. the vet just looked at me and i knew what was coming next. he said she was deteriating very quickly and that he highly recommended that we put her to sleep today!
so i called my mum in complete tears and she came up straight away, we sat in there with missy while the vet gave her one injection to slow her down, then the second to sedate her, at that point, she was laying on her side, not flinching, she'd completely given up, i ran out sobbing my eyes out, my mum came out a little while later and said the vet has given her the 3rd injection in the heart, shes now asleep, didnt feel a thing, so i went back in and just watched her, he had curled her up like she does in her tank at night and looked so peaceful, no spasming, no regurgitating, no funny noises, no pain.
i stroked her for a little bit, i heard my mum thank the vet for everything he's done but everything was a blur, i just left real fast, she will be going in the refridgerator this evening, they do that to make sure she is for real, dead. then in the morning, shes being sent off to be cremated and i can collect her in her little box in a week, she'll be back with me.
i knew this was coming but it still hit me like the world caving in.
am so sad for her, and am sad that she suffered for so long without anyone knowing anything.
just cannot describe how im feeling, am completely devastated it had to come to this so soon, my heart has been torn through all this and will be for some time
she was my ultimate little darling, always has been and always will
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R.I.P missy

just thought i'd share this as i needed to get it off my chest.
pictures taken recently

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just look at her, shes gorgeous and i bet she felt real sorry for herself
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sorry just had to say something
 
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I am so very sorry for your loss. My family gets very close with our pets as well. How lucky she was to have such a good home and caregiver.
 
I'm sorry to hear about your poor Missy but it sounds like you did the absolute right thing. Even though putting a pet down can be a pretty rough experience, I can see no reason to allow any animal suffer needlessly and I'm sure she appreciated it in her own snake like way.
 
I am VERY sorry for your loss. :( As I was reading your post it actually brought tears to my eyes. I know how you feel, I have had to deal with this in the past. It really hurts to lose a pet that we LOVE so much. Even though we know that what we do is best for the pet, it doesn't make it hurt any less. Take Care.
 
It brought tears to my eyes as well. I'm so sorry you lost your beautiful girl, but you did the absolute right thing. No creature should suffer, and she deserved the very best care that you could give, including letting her go. When I put my dog to sleep, my friend said something that I believe: Our pets live such a short time because they each have something to teach us. If they lived a long time, we wouldn't have the benefit of so many lessons.
 
I cried too. I am so sorry for you loss. I had to have my German Shep put down last winter because his hips were gone and he was in constant pain. It's never easy, but know that you did the right thing. I like to think that the bonds we form makes us better owners, and it is so hard to let go. I am sure she was a loved and wonderfully cared for snake, she was beauitful. Just remember that sometimes the most loving act we can perform is to let them go with dignity. Peace.
 
I am so sorry Missy. You did the right thing , but I know from experience it is one of the hardest things we have to do. Concentrate on the good memories and happy times,
Skye
 
thank you all for your kind words and support
i just never ever thought it would be this hard, dont seem to be coping at all well with it.
(((hugz)))
 
i picked Missy's ashes up today, at 1700, shes now in a gorgeous little box with a gold plaque on top with her name on. so cute. shes real heavy too, heavier than i thought.
am sad still i will no longer sit there watching telly with her around my neck, stroking under her head. she loved that, just that for hours sometimes.
here is a pic of her new home and the card i got back with her.

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and this was the card i got back with her
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hi missy

sorry you had to lose your 'baby'......I hope the pain soon eases and you can remember her with laughter.


ty marg
 
So sorry for your loss, looks as though you gave her a a great goodbye, heaven is better place having her now.
 
So sorry for your loss. But you can be assured that Missy is now up in heaven, along with SO many of our pets! And she will be waiting for you when you get there. Plus you need to remember that she is in perfect health now. At least this is what I believe.
sue
 
hiya Sue :wavey:

[[be assured that Missy is now up in heaven, along with SO many of our pets! And she will be waiting for you when you get there. Plus you need to remember that she is in perfect health now. At least this is what I believe.]]

that is not something I believe sorry, ...........but thats a whole different subject ............ :sidestep: :)

thank you
 
i too unfortunately do not believe it, however much i want to believe it. a friend once sent me a little story named "rainbow bridge" tis a beautiful story and i some what belive in it.
here it is ~
Just this side of heaven is a place called rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone
here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so
they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends
are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health
and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole
and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days
and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing;
they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be
left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one
suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are
intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from
the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him
faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend
finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be
parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands
again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the
trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never
absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together..."
 
hiya :wavey:

the sentiments are nice but ........
most would like to think this kind of thing happens. :) .............enjoy them whilst you have them :)

thank you
 
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