thank you again to everyone who has posted since my last visit to this thread. just to update you a little more.......three days ago my wife was told to come into the dr.'s office immediately as she was still bleeding, migraine headache and bp running around 165/105. he gave her a prescription for some kind of "high-octane" blood pressure medicine, zoloft and ambien to help her rest (she had not been sleeping well and still taking it very hard) and told her to go home right afterwards and get off of her feet.
fast forward to today and she is alot better.....bp is averaging in the 130/90 range and is sleeping a little better. she still has some "moments" but not quite as bad. i think a major factor in this was that during this time both her parents and my parents were here for the holidays and the kids were out of school. in the last couple of days obviously the parents are gone, kids are back in school and i have had to go back to work to pay the bills. so i think the fact that now she was feeling alone had alot to do with it and she seems to be settling in to the current time.
once again........a BIG thanks to all of you for helping both of us out in this. even though she does not get on the forum much anymore, i do relay information to her, so she is aware and gives her thanks as well. (she had somehow lost the "snake-mood" she was in as i think being pregnant and the smell of the room, baby pinky mice, etc. was too much to handle with all the hormones changing).
p.s.........we decided to name him Gabriel, after the angel, and are both looking at getting a momento of some type in "ink".