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One of those days..

Pet Corn Snake

Pet Corn Snake

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Well, I'm not a huge reader of the (I just need to rant) threads, but I think I might start...

Today I have spent a day out with my girlfriend, she chose to go to the natural history musiam and so we spent 3 whole hours there :awcrap::awcrap: I actually like history but re-watching all the history movies on the big screen 5 times (8 small movies) was just depressing..

Anyways so the girl was really nice and I was maybe hoping for a nice realtionship.. UNTIL... I get an add on msn, (hello I'm ****'s friend I have to tell you something) at this point i guessed what was going to happen and it was right, she wants to be *friends* don't they all?!!?!?!?!

you know, I'm just stressed because she said she liked me today and then she finishes me through a friend, she still has not been in touch and explained, and I have no cell phone credit..

I just need to tell people that might care, because most people are like *you'll get over her*


of course i will, but it's hurting me..
 
At least get her to say it to your face... what a cop-out. Plus is there is a possibility her friend is making it up to mess with you?
 
Yea I agree, Nah her friend was complaining to me how the girl always goes through her for break-ups, as a friend though she should not put her friend in the position to finish her own relationships, the thing that makes it worst is, I had a great day with her!
 
Lol, well, I think ive showned enough frustration for one night, maybe if she logg's on msn I can arrange another meeting where she can tell me to my damn face, if not atleast an IM or email explaining would settle my head abit..
 
If this girl isn't mature enough to tell you she isn't interested, then she isn't worth your time anyways. Be better than her and just let it go. Showing that you don't care is your biggest weapon against her at this point.
 
Who cares how she did things, George? She's gone. Don't waste one more iota of energy on her. You're young. Find the next one.
 
Ah! George that is nasty. Honestly though if someone had to watch the same thing over and over in the Natural History Museum, isn't for you, really. I'm like you I love museums, art, history, science whatever but don't stand for 30 minutes in front of one painting. Of course there was the first time I saw a Kandinsky and stood there crying like a fool. The right person will come along for you and while you won't have everything in common, you'll know when it's right. susang
 
Pet Corn Snake said:
Just gets confusing sometimes, in my head, and these events make things a lot worse..
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It's because you are maturing and you want something real and lasting, it will happen you have to give it time. Really you will know when the right one comes along, it's "like magic". susang
 
yea, I have a very addicting personality and probably become attached too fast, I know the next one will come along soon, this was my first real realtionship in a few years *TBH Id rather play computer games, lol* and now im more confident ive made like 40? new friends at college.. So who know's =d
 
Pet Corn Snake said:
yea, I have a very addicting personality and probably become attached too fast, I know the next one will come along soon, this was my first real realtionship in a few years *TBH Id rather play computer games, lol* and now im more confident ive made like 40? new friends at college.. So who know's =d
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I would NOT recommend trying World of Warcraft then :grin01:

I'm sorry to hear about that mate, if she has to finish with you through a friend then she's not worth your time. I know how it feels man, I've had similar situations come my way.

Like tonight, I asked this girl if she wanted to come over for a meal and a movie. She was really enthusiatic about it but in the end she had to look after her grandmother. Now I don't know whether that was just an excuse to get out of it, or whether it was genuine. Repeated let-downs tend to make people a little sceptical and cynical lol. But she said we could go out soon, so you never know.

I hope you can get a face-to-face explanation/apology mate.

All the best

David
 
Thanks for the support dave, you see locally there is not many like me, same music, same dress style, ect.. And where she's from and she herself is very much like me, therefor I think originally she was aimed to be a friend but I made the mistake of taking it past friends..
 
How old was the girl, 15? I know everyone's different but at that age I'd have rather put pins in my eyes than have a 'relationship' with a boy other than mutual interests in sci-fi or geeky stuff, playing football, going crabbing or out to the local nature reserves in a gang. Anything other than friendship was so far off the radar I though friends of mine who mooned over boys were totally weird!
Do you really want all the intensity of being in an exclusive relationship when you've got so much more maturing of your own to do? As I said, everyone's different, but at that age the only physical contact I had with boys was arm-wrestling!
 
Hi George,
Sorry to hear your going through the mill.. It won't be the last time..LOL
I suppose I'll have to be the un-PC one and remind you of the saying "Treat em mean, keep em keen." That isn't to say you become a right pig, just hold something in reserve.
You know how it is, You always want the things you can't quite seem to get....Now go out there and shine....LOL
MIKE
 
LOL thanks guys, arm wrestling? lol =D

That saying seems to be my best option now MIKE, your son use's that all the time and he seems to have success, I'm probably too nice in a female realtionship, I like to tell them there pretty ect.. maybe I should just tell them to re-do there hair next time they ask if it's okay LMAO, nah just messing xd
 
Telling girls they're pretty has it's place, the trick is knowing when that time is..
Too soon and it scares them too late and they think your not interested....
You need to remember. If a girl/boy is spending time with you they are interested in knowing you better, they like you to some extent. Don't start to gush un-dieing love to reassure them, it's not needed....
*ONLY EVER DRIP FEED COMPLIMENTS, LESS IS MORE*
unless your married, then compliment thick and fast, if you want to live...LOL
MIKE
 
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