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I know how you feel right now. Maybe not as strong, but we had to put down my dog that I got for my 4th birthday a few days ago, and now I feel empty. She was blind and deaf, and it's just not the same when I don't hear her barking at night.

I've never been attached to something for as long as you and Sadar though. So, in a way, I can't even begin to fathom the pain. I cried reading this, so it must be way worse for you. I hope you find another horse to fill in Sadar's shoes, which seems like it will be difficult. Feel better!
 
So sorry for your loss, that poem/epitaph was very touching - he must have been a wonderful friend to you. I know what everybody means about the bond with our animals, they are the most loyal companion you can ask for and it's just as painful to lose one as it would be to lose a dear friend or family member.
 
I am so sorry Catherine. He was a beautiful friend.
I am a dog person, and know that special bond. But I also know there is a totally different and special bond with your horse.
I went through a similar situation with my daughters horse last year. Even though he was technically their horse, he was my buddy. I was the one who cared for him and he was my jogging buddy(yeah I was the silly woman running next to a horse instead of riding him). I also stayed with him until the end, holding his head on my lap. The only thing we could do was to end his pain. And he was also buried in his favorite spot in the pasture with me standing guard. I still keep a lock of his mane with me. He wasn't with us near as long as you have been with Sadar, and I don't think I have ever cried as hard as I did that day.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
This thread made me cry. I am so sorry for your loss, Sadar was a beautiful creature. I know how you feel... I remember when my Welsh pony had to be put down. I was in college and didn't even know it had happened until I got home for break. I wish I could've been there...
 
I guess the world works in mysterious ways. Meet Ibn Sadar (Ibn means "son of" in Arabic) with mom, Precious Alibi. He was born last night at about 10:00pm. He was breeched and we thought he wasn't going to make it wihout problems, but Mom managed to have a healthy birth (with a little of my help).

Sadar, you'd be proud. He looks just like you too. He'll be just as white, and just as much of a pain in the arse. :)

Oh man guys... I don't know if I can take much more of this emotional sh*t!
 

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Sadar, you'd be proud. He looks just like you too. He'll be just as white, and just as much of a pain in the arse. :)
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What, you think he'd leave you without being consistent? ;)

Oh man guys... I don't know if I can take much more of this emotional sh*t!
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Sure you can! Seeing how Sadar filled your spirit, you've got plenty "in reserve".

Strange to say "condolences" yesterday and "congrats" today - but when one door closes, another opens up, y'know?

Ah, the circle of life. :)

regards,
jazz
 
Oh Catherine... Ibn Sadar is so darling. What a perfect name for such a little blessing. I'm sure Sadar's happy you'll have this little guy to turn to for comfort and friendship. Congrats!
 
Awwww, he's adorable! Do you believe in reincarnation? Sometimes I do. Things like this really make you wonder. That's so special.
 
Well, within the first hour after imprinting, he was nibbling on my fingers and head-butting me. His father used to do that all the time. Sadar used to head-butt me so hard he'd actually knock me down sometimes... of course, it was his way of playing.

Normally, I wouldn't say I believe in reincarnation... I think this time I do. It gives me a little bit of hope. Of course, it could be me subconciously fooling myself. :shrugs:

I didn't want anything to do with going out to the barn when mom came running to tell me a mare was foaling. When she told me it was Alibi, I really didn't want to witness it. Being Sadar's foal, I thought it would just hurt too much. Mom drug me out. Alibi has been a good girl all her life, but not very social with humans. She doesn't really like people, but sometimes she'll turn to me for support (she had an abusive owner when she was younger). Mom kinda used that against me. When I saw she was having problems, I couldn't leave her. Cried my eyes out when he arrived. He has the same white star (even though you couldn't see it on Sadar because he was already white) and when he came out grey, I knew for sure this was Sadar's messenger. He doesn't look like it now, but he'll mature just as white as his father. Just think of it like a Bloodred. :)
 
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Normally, I wouldn't say I believe in reincarnation... I think this time I do. It gives me a little bit of hope. Of course, it could be me subconciously fooling myself. :shrugs:
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Congratulations on the new baby!! And as far as reincarnation...due to the timing and all, I think there is a good chance that Sadar just might have come back to spend more time with you!
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I only hope I'll be as strong as you when that day comes for me.

And on a lighter note, what a beautiful baby! You have to post more pictures as he grows. :)


hana
 
That's gotta be one of the kewlest valentines day presents ever! I didn't even get roses...and you got a beautiful baby! Sounds a lot like his father, and it sounds like you guys are gonna have a good time together!
 
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