desertanimal
2003 UB313
No biggie. Indeed, historically threads have been locked at the OPs behest, and indeed, they have sometimes been subsequently continued by another with a request to keep it clean/civil/whatever.
tailfeathers--In your haste to defend your good buddy Dale, you missed the point. The REASON I referred to Dale in my list of things that straight people can do here is BECAUSE he reliably refers to women and his attraction thereto in a non-offensive way. Dale's my buddy, too, and I know he wouldn't mind being used as my example of the straight man with healthy appetite, so I use him. The particular reference to redheads was to a joking conversation I had with him a looong time ago, not to Arial and whoever. Just chill. No one was attacking your or Dale, and the convo. wasn't about you anymore. Please try to think things through in this thread before replying, so that this one doesn't get locked.
Fizzle--Sort of. It was sort of a political discussion about hetero/gay rights that was asked to be taken to PM. But why should it? Can we not have political discussions about women's equality here? About immigration? About other sensitive political topics? We can and we have, and lately, actually, they've gone just fine. Everyone has been able to act like adults and some of them just agree to disagree. Why should THIS political issue be relegated to PMs when other sensitive discussions are not?
Susan--I apologize for offending you. I wasn't being literal, just jokingly acknowledging that tyflier's concerns for his future adolescent daughter are well-founded, and his desired solution is actually a safe one, statistically speaking. I wouldn't say the same for men, because that's not statistically safer than being hetero (for one, you run the risk of being beaten up). And I wouldn't say the same for being gay in some other countries, where the personal risks to gay women are very high.
I would rather have had you respond to my post and tell me that you were offended by that particular remark so that I could have recanted/explained and apologized to you than have you tell me to take discussions of homosexuality to the PMs. The implications of the two responses are vastly different, in my opinion.
tailfeathers--In your haste to defend your good buddy Dale, you missed the point. The REASON I referred to Dale in my list of things that straight people can do here is BECAUSE he reliably refers to women and his attraction thereto in a non-offensive way. Dale's my buddy, too, and I know he wouldn't mind being used as my example of the straight man with healthy appetite, so I use him. The particular reference to redheads was to a joking conversation I had with him a looong time ago, not to Arial and whoever. Just chill. No one was attacking your or Dale, and the convo. wasn't about you anymore. Please try to think things through in this thread before replying, so that this one doesn't get locked.
Fizzle--Sort of. It was sort of a political discussion about hetero/gay rights that was asked to be taken to PM. But why should it? Can we not have political discussions about women's equality here? About immigration? About other sensitive political topics? We can and we have, and lately, actually, they've gone just fine. Everyone has been able to act like adults and some of them just agree to disagree. Why should THIS political issue be relegated to PMs when other sensitive discussions are not?
Susan--I apologize for offending you. I wasn't being literal, just jokingly acknowledging that tyflier's concerns for his future adolescent daughter are well-founded, and his desired solution is actually a safe one, statistically speaking. I wouldn't say the same for men, because that's not statistically safer than being hetero (for one, you run the risk of being beaten up). And I wouldn't say the same for being gay in some other countries, where the personal risks to gay women are very high.
I would rather have had you respond to my post and tell me that you were offended by that particular remark so that I could have recanted/explained and apologized to you than have you tell me to take discussions of homosexuality to the PMs. The implications of the two responses are vastly different, in my opinion.