annacobb
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My son is 4...me and the x have been having problems from day 1 with custody. We disagree on everything, no real shocker there, but we talk and make things work typically, except he wants full custody and I am only willing to settle for 50 50 lol. There is absolutely nothing he will ever be able to do to convince me otherwise. The temporary order is in place...judge ordered 50 50...were working out some minor details then it will be made final and everything is set! YAY!
I received a phone call from his attorney (8 am) this morning. He has apparently taken it upon himself to refuse me the right to have my son in the home due to my "bizarre collection of exotic pets" stating that they are "dangerous" I'm shocked! I talked to the police and they are telling me there's nothing they can do, I have to get a court date and have a judge fix the situation...3-6 weeks. I'm pretty sure the shock is wearing off and now I'm ANGRY!
I have no idea what to do right now other than hope he comes to his senses (he himself purchased our newest member of the "dangerous" collection, a beautiful ball python) and this "bizarre collection" is a corn and a ball....2 snakes! There is another to be added soon and 2 in a month or so but I do not, nor do I think anyone (with sense about them) will, find this to be "bizarre"!!!!
Our snakes have never bitten, the ball has never been handled and I'm sure he will be aggressive for a while, but my son is EXTREMELY supervised...with everything, I am terribly overprotective...I'm ranting sorry. The point, I guess, is what kind of things do I need to talk about in connection to my pets and any tips? I am getting used to having to defend this lovely hobby...but this is extreme. Cyrus loves this world and is very involved. I have seen a beautiful change in him since we started this journey together. He loves checking the temps with me and the water and learning how to properly care for the animals. I love how concerned he is about how "safe" they feel...he tells me a lot to turn my music down because loud noises make ginger hide...I'm a little heart broken...sorry.
I received a phone call from his attorney (8 am) this morning. He has apparently taken it upon himself to refuse me the right to have my son in the home due to my "bizarre collection of exotic pets" stating that they are "dangerous" I'm shocked! I talked to the police and they are telling me there's nothing they can do, I have to get a court date and have a judge fix the situation...3-6 weeks. I'm pretty sure the shock is wearing off and now I'm ANGRY!
I have no idea what to do right now other than hope he comes to his senses (he himself purchased our newest member of the "dangerous" collection, a beautiful ball python) and this "bizarre collection" is a corn and a ball....2 snakes! There is another to be added soon and 2 in a month or so but I do not, nor do I think anyone (with sense about them) will, find this to be "bizarre"!!!!
Our snakes have never bitten, the ball has never been handled and I'm sure he will be aggressive for a while, but my son is EXTREMELY supervised...with everything, I am terribly overprotective...I'm ranting sorry. The point, I guess, is what kind of things do I need to talk about in connection to my pets and any tips? I am getting used to having to defend this lovely hobby...but this is extreme. Cyrus loves this world and is very involved. I have seen a beautiful change in him since we started this journey together. He loves checking the temps with me and the water and learning how to properly care for the animals. I love how concerned he is about how "safe" they feel...he tells me a lot to turn my music down because loud noises make ginger hide...I'm a little heart broken...sorry.