well i didn't expect a response like that, but i am very greatful to you all.
Princess i have to admit you made me think abit, i think i would have sat down and cried if Liz hadn't come to the rescue. but to answer your questions:-
my female is 4ft and my male is just under 3ft, both in really good condition. they have both been conditioned for breeding and i have spent hours researching what to do during breeding and incubation. the thing i have obviously got wrong is introducing my male to the female when i should be doing it the other way round, i will try that thanks princess.
i have never had a problem with vet bills, i would pay anything to ensure my pets are well, i would be gutted if anything happened to them.
when i bought Ruby i didn't have any intentions of breeding just yet but my local reptile shop put the idea in my head when i bought Sid. I'm not doing it for financial gain, although the owner of the Reptile shop wants to buy any snakes we breed.
I am fasinated by this process like all the other animals we have, we breed Hawks and ferrets too (very different i know) but i love it and as i work from home i have lots of time to take care of them.
Having Ruby and sid is great and i want to take very good care of them, thats why i feel the need to just check with you all that i'm not doing something wrong(thank god for this forum). I have read some books that have very conflicting information anout snakes, so i quess the best thing to do is ask all you snake lovers who have got far more experience than me.
anyway thanks everyone i really appreciate your advice and i do understand your concern princess, you are obviously annoyed by people who think owning a snake is just a game and i agree with you totaly.
Thanks for welcoming me to the forum Liz, thats really kind of you and i'm sure i will have a lot for questions as time goes on. if they don't breed this year, then thats the way it has to be, but i will try again.
thanks again
Isobel