Yeah me too. I love this cat, but if he is not going to be reasonable with me then I don't know if it is going to work. As I said, he didn't mention anything about paying for anything.
I can just seeing the bills at the vet stacking up. I will be sad if this does not work out, but there is a shelter over-flowing with kitten right by my apartment. I know I will feel gratified if I rescue one of them.
I believe cats choose you, not the other way around. I suppose if it doesn't work out, he wasn't right for me.
We shall see.