I would say, not to overpower him/her, give it some alone time, to get used to things, Damien was Really nice, but i held him too much, he turned agressive, and it took me about 3 weeks of handling to get him used to me, now i can do anything with him, move his head around, move him if he tries to go down my top or w/e he basically trusts me, i would handle your snake once or twice a day, i generally do this when watching tv : ) remember as ^^^ "somone" said above "cant remember who" dont handle straight after feeding : P