Thanks, guys! Yes, we're actually looking for someone to place the spouse in a better job. He's got an MBA with a lot of experience and his job pays very well, but he's miserable. He's been considering this for a long time, but he's not sure how to even go about finding someone. In this economy, I know it's not going to be easy to meet his financial demands, though. I'll also be going back to work (I'm an RN) in Aug when the kids are both finally in school full time. Until then, we're working hard to make ends meet, and it's causing a huge strain, as I'm sure many here are also dealing with. Finances will wreck a marriage quick.