I own/have owned all three. I like the idea of ball pythons, but have never had good luck with ball pythons, they would refuse to eat, and the one that we did have that ate, passed away completely unexpectedly on us

So I'm done with ball pythons, and am content to look at pictures of them lol. Our one that did eat was great to handle for the most part, but he tagged my husband once and he had a mean bite to him.
I have one grey rat snake female, about 3 years old. In tank she's aggressive, flattens her head, rattles her tail, hisses and strikes. BUT we got her as an adult and she was like that. She has calmed down a wee bit to the point that you can handle her with just a bit of muskiness and minor strikage.
I love my kings. They're a little funny as babies- one of mine musked every time he was picked up but never bit, another of mine would casually omnom you, and the other one is more or less good once out of tank, just has a wicked feeding response. She's broken out of multiple feeding bins if we take too long to feed/put away. Once my kings hit adults they calmed right down. The musky one and casual biter one are perfect out of tank and easy to pick up in tank.
I do find my kings to be a little more persistent in escape than my corns. There's the one that escapes her feeding bins, the casual biter has escaped housing bins, and the musky one has escaped multiple housing bins and a tank or two lol.
I have a striped california (Valik), an aberrant striped california (Xain), and an albino striped banana california (Sydney). Definifely a few of my favourites in my collection.