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Recent Death

Silt

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One of my classmates passed away yesterday... I'm quite devastated. First thing yesterday that I heard was that Kevin, the victim, was in the hospital in critical condition with life threatening injuries. Him and a friend were curious and put a rock (about the size of a large grapefruit) by a bus trap. As they watched from the grass a couple meters back, the rock shot out from underneath the bus tire and hit Kevin in the forehead. He was rushed to the Children's Hospital. That same night on the 11 pm news, it was announced that he was taken off of life support earlier in the evening.

Here are a couple articles from today's newspaper:


Calgary boy dies after hit in head with rock flung from bus tire in prank


Canadian Press
Thursday, October 19, 2006



CALGARY (CP) - Crisis counselors came to a junior high school Thursday to comfort classmates of a Grade 8 student who died in a freak accident.

Kevin Gonsalez, 13, was pulled off life support Wednesday, a day after he and a buddy placed a large rock on the metal bars of a bus trap as a prank.

When a bus passed by, the pressure of the tires propelled the rock out and it hit Gonsalez just above the eyes.

He was taken to Alberta Children's Hospital, but his injuries were too severe to save him.

Because of their young school mate's tragic death, and the unusual circumstances surrounding it, the decision was made to bring in grief counselors to St. Helena junior high school, said Tania Younker, a spokeswoman for the city's Catholic school district.

"They're just talking with kids, taking one-on-one time with kids who need it and providing support to the teaching staff," she said.

It's become standard practice after a tragic or traumatic event to allow both students and staff to express their feelings, she said.

"It's better for kids to be able to talk it through with somebody who can help them work through the grief and the pain and help them grieve and get that out in the open rather than keep it bottled inside."

Because of the Catholic junior high school's strong faith component, a special service will likely be held at the school, Younker said.

The date for such a service hasn't been set.

Friends say the Gonsalez family recently moved to Calgary from Colombia.

© The Canadian Press 2006




Teen dies after freak accident with rock

Gwendolyn Richards; Calgary Herald


Gwendolyn Richards, Calgary Herald
Published: Thursday, October 19, 2006

A young victim of misadventure has died from injuries sustained Tuesday when he was hit in the head by a large rock in an experiment that went horribly wrong.

Kevin Gonsalez, 13, died after he was pulled off life-support, Calgary Catholic School District superintendent Jeremy Simms said Wednesday evening after a trustee offered up prayers for the student at a board meeting.

Gonsalez and his friend Christian Florez were experimenting when they put a fist-sized rock on the bus trap -- a pit covered by metal bars spaced to allow buses to pass but not other vehicles -- on Centre Street N. just south of Beddington Trail on Tuesday afternoon.

They were watching the rock as a bus drove over it, propelling it at Gonsalez "like a slingshot" and hitting the teen just above the eyes, Acting Sgt. Gordon Johnston said Tuesday.

The teen was taken to Alberta Children's Hospital in life-threatening condition.

Friends and classmates at St. Helena Junior High School, where Gonsalez was a Grade 8 student, said they were shocked the funny teenager had been so seriously injured.

Katie Skappak said she was with Gonsalez and Florez by the bus trap, but left shortly before the incident.

She couldn't believe what happened, she said.

Friend Luis Combariza said Gonsalez moved to Calgary about eight months ago and was a nice guy with a good sense of humour.

"He's a funny guy," he said.

Calgary Transit spokesman Ron Collins said the service has never had any problems like this before and doesn't anticipate it will happen again.

"This was an unfortunate, freak accident," he said.

The Catholic school district's crisis intervention team is talking to the school's administration to get a sense of how the school community is reacting, spokeswoman Tania Younker said.

"They will be at the school (today)," she said.

© The Calgary Herald 2006



Sincerely,
Lisa Fedorchuk




Kevin Gonsalez
1993-October 18, 2006
 
I'm so sorry. It's hard to accept a life being taken for apparently no reason at such a young age.

We had a fatal car accident here yesterday afternoon. Two cars were involved in a bad crash. The man in one vehicle was unresponsive, and the driver and passenger of the other car couldn't get him out of his locked vehicle. After they walked away to go call 911, the driver of the first car woke up and ran out into traffic and was hit by a semi and killed. Greg said "It's like Final Destination- if it's your time to go, it's your time to go."

Which I believe is true. We may not understand why the seemingly least deserving (of death) people are called back early- but take comfort in knowing that your classmate is in a better place now, and though you may not understand why- that is the plan. He is spared a life on earth or suffering and hurt, and gets to go to his reward now.

Still- it hurts. ((((you))))

Nanci
 
I first taught at a school in which three members of the senior class were killed. Two in October that fall, and then one in April, with just 5 weeks left to graduation. I was a new teacher, and though I did not know Joe, I went to his viewing because I had his younger brother in my 9th grade bio class.

I had been to viewings before, but always for older people, when you could honestly say they had a good life before the end came. Never had I been to a funeral for a young person. My mother said "Let me go with you, don't go alone, it's too hard..." and I said no, I was tough, I could take it. After all, I didn't even know the guy.

Let me tell you... I cried like a baby at that funeral. The hardest thing in the world is to lose a young person who has barely begun to live. I now live in fear of exactly this kind of thing happening... the early morning emergency faculty meeting in which they tell us a student has died. It's happened twice so far in nearly 4 years, and I am always scared to death that it will be a student I really got to know. I can honestly say that this is my biggest fear, having surpassed spiders.

So sorry for your loss. It is tough to handle, especially when it was such a freak (and preventable) accident.
 
How terrible and tragic. It is hard to deal with death at any age, especially when such a young person dies as the result of a prank gone wrong - because it could have been avoided. When I was in grade school, one of the older kids at my school was killed by a train - his buddies had dared him to run across the tracks as the train was speeding towards them.

So sad... my condolences to his family and friends.


Jenn
 
So sorry for you and the boy's family.

When I was 13, a classmate of mine was killed in a dirt bike wreck. It was the first time I'd ever dealt with the death of someone so young, but unfortunately it wasn't the last. It is so hard to deal with when a young person dies, even for adults.
 
Sounds to me something like a "cow trap" in that a cars wheels would fall through it, but a busses wheels, which are wider roll right over it. Maybe used to make a "bus only" lane??
 
I really know what you're going through, the family, and everyone involved will be in my thoughts. Three people that I know of have died in the past week and a half around me. One girl killed herself, and two women were stabbed to death. Last year, one of my classmates killed herself too...

Death is a horrible thing to deal with..you're in my thoughts too.
 
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