I will be honest we do have fun with our guns, we can go out back and shoot fruit with .22's and things like that. But we always stress safety with the kids and while we do enjoy ourselves guns are not seen as toys in my family. Also please not before we get to far into this post, I am not uspet, or offended, or anything else like that I am just curious about your views. I treat owning guns very seriously and it seems like you and I both have the same reasoning/logic but somehow we have come to very different conclusions so I am curious is all.
I see you say that you can understand guns as a means of self defense, well as a parents it is my job to send my kids out into the world at 18 being able to take care of themselves and being able to defend themselves is an important component to me having done my job. How can they be prepared for that if they have been sheltered and kept away from such a very valuable tool? I am not at all squeamish about this issue I am open with my kids about what protecting yourself with a firearm means. It means killing another person if need be. But when a criminal puts me into a life or death situation the decision that someone is going to die has already been made by them. The only thing I have left to decide is whether that someone is going to be me and my kids or them. I would hate having to be in a situation like that, but I am also very clear about what my decision would be.
To be honest where we live Cell phone signal is not really existent, and there aren't any neighbors close enough to hear me scream out for help, besides even if someone could hear and call the police I could be dead before they would have time to respond. While my areas is very safe and there hasn't ever been a reason to be fearful what happens tactically speaking if there ever was a problem? All it would take is for someone to snip my phone lines and me and my kids would be totally cut off from the rest of the world, and so that is why we have guns. So that I can kill them if the need arises. I don't hide that from my kids, I make it as clear to them as possible. When they grow up and hopefully decide to have and carry guns I don't want them to feel squeamish or unsure in a bad situation, I want them to have thought clearly about the issue so that in the situation they don't have to think, they can just do.
All of the sport/hobby uses for guns are very valuable for kids and adults, because it allows people to become intimately familiar with their gun. A kid or adult who shoots and targets will be certain of where their bullet is going to go should they ever have to pull it in a bad situation. A person who uses their gun often for sport will know how to use it in a variety of differnet situations, they will know how to clear a jam, they will know exactly what pulling the trigger will feel like, and all of those things. I do not deny that target shooting, and the like prepares kids and adults in case they ever have to defend themselves. I just wonder why thats a bad thing?