im calm now
CAV said:
1. Obesity is solely the fault of the keeper. You have learned (through experience) what makes for a more appropriate diet for your snake and have made adjustments. Kudos
sorry gary, i suppose it was my fault for my Skitzy being on the large side, LOL, she was always an extremely active snake, fed her every 7-10 days, she had lived with another one, Missy for years, then missy had to be put to sleep, im sure you have read that post of mine somewhere and then she just stopped being active for some reason, this may sound silly but i think she may have noticed that her little housemate had gone, she didnt move and i continued to feed her as usual and thats when she put on the weight, however she is starting to be her normal skitzoid self now, (hence the name Skitzy) and she has lost a couple of ounces, and im feeding her every 14 days now, so when shes back to her active happy self, i will feed her 7-10days as normal.
2. You "accidentally" bred a snake twice. Twice that snake bore the brunt of your decision. Twice you were given bad advice. Now, it sounds like you have learned (through that experience) more appropriate husbandry skills that will prevent such an event in the future. Kudos again
hmmm, this i felt absolutely terrible for both times, so didnt mean for her to go through any of that, i did get her the best treatment asap too. bless her.
I'm glad that you have found a good herp vet. In that you are fortunate. I on the other hand live in a city of more than 1 million and there is exactly 1 vet that is knowledgeable enough for me to trust the care of my animals. I have out diagnosed (correctly

) three others. Learn all you can from your Aussie friend. It is your animals that will be helped by that relationship.
yes i do feel lucky that i found him actually, he is very good and a couple of reptile shops around my area use him too for all their animals. have been back and forth to him since may now, so we know each other pretty well and my snakes know him too. so thats good that they dont feel threatened by him.
One last suggestion: Don't get so defensive when others try to help. There is no doubt in my mind that your want to provide the best care for your animal that is possible. If you didn't, you wouldn't spend so much time around here.
sorry gary, i do tend to take some things to heart. i shall not get so touchy when someone tries to help out in the future. i guess i just panick a bit, you know, lol, im quite an anxious person and i get quite defesive. not so good really, need to chill a bit
*thats daft Anny for ya*. LOL
thanx gary for all your help in the past.
