Thank you all for your replies, I appreciate the assistance...
Ironically, yesterday I reduced the heat on the critter keeper...
I am using a UTH, but I have it set up on part of the keeper, so that I can use it for the Anery and my new Butter (in a 10 gal, set up next to it )...
(Off Topic - Sorry I didn't mention that earlier... I just added a new butter male hatch to my collection, I guess I needed a bit of color... lol. Don't worry, I have learned from this experience, I will be leaving him alone for a good 4-5 days and leave him alone with the f/t on his first feed all night if need be... he's a shy little fella, unlike my snow...)
Thank you Tracee, that will be very helpful...
and, rat tails sound like they may work well...
But perhaps, before I try that (especially since some of you mentioned, that once force fed, the snake may develop a dependency to force feeding...) I think I will try one last time with just a rat pinkie head... maybe the temp being slightly lower, and not being removed from her viv may be the missing variables (I know I mentioned that I tried to feed her in her viv, but at the time she was in a 10 gal tank, it may have been to big...)
TandJ - No worries, I took no offense, I know it can be a bit frustrating at times, when you constantly see similar posts...
Thanks again everyone, I will keep you posted...