I handle my 3 year old snow 2 to 3 times a day when I am home for roughly 10 minutes. my 3 year old okeetee I handle a lot more as she likes to cling. every time I pick her up, she wraps my arm and just stays in position. a lot of the time when I am working on my computer or doing other small things around the house, she is wrapped around my arm watching everything that I do. My hatchlings, I handle about 3 times a week. Once when I feed them, then again 3 days later to clean their deli cups, and a third time just for quality time. Seems to work for me.