It sounds like you are doing research, but it also sounds like your research is kind of biased.
I haven't heard even one negative possibility from you, which I think is a little unrealistic.
As a breeder if you can visit their home and hang out for awhile to see how their Foxs interact with everyone, what kind of schedule they have, just how the house is in general. That way you can decided if you really want to care for one of these, AND get some ideas of good husbandry skills.
Any good breeder should be comfortable doing this with you.
The trial period sounds good.. sounds like you've already contacted some reliable breeders.
Also, about oppinions: Everyone has them. We shouldn't judge others based on our personal oppinions or worry about how they are straying from
our experience. I'm sure there are many people who would adamantly try to convince one of us not to keep snakes. As long as the OP knows what he's getting into and has a responsible plan it's not my place to judge him for wanting a Fox.
Weather domestication of Foxes is right or wrong... that's a whole other issue. Sadly if there's a market for something, ethical issues are rarely considered.
I have not done any research on this matter so I don't yet have a fully formed opinion. If you do end up getting one of these (to the OP), let us know how it goes! Good, bad, ugly, and just plain adorable..
What about when you get deployed? ?
This occurred to me as well..
Make sure your mother is 100% on bored with you and doing as much research as you are. It would be unfair for your mother to all of a sudden find herself with an exotic animal she's not prepared for.
One opinion I will share..
It is not responsible or fair to get ANY animal when your living situation is unstable and not up to you..