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First off, I am a newbie snake owner, so this is just from research mostly and talking to the guys at the snakeshop I got my cornsnake from, who were just about the most imformative people on snakes I have ever met (other than the great people on here).
Second, I would like to say that when you yell at somebody for posting a question it is just making them afraid to ask - the purpose of this site is to help share the plethora of knowledge on snakes that snake owners (and esp. new snake owners) need to keep their snakes happy and healthy. I was told before that I shouldn't be afraid to ask a question.... "we don't bite" .... looks to be like somebody's head was nibble after posting this question, lets hope it wont happen again!!!
Thirdly, I am told that handling hatchlings and young snakes is smart because they will get used to you and not bite or become aggravated when you hold them as adult snakes. It's just part of taming them I guess... I try and hold my snake rather frequently, even if he is just laying in my hand, so that he gets used to being held. Of course, if your snake gets really angry while you are holding her/him, kindly put him back (else it'll have to opposite effect). Also, IDK if you have heard about the T-shirt trick, where u put a worn t-shirt in a snakes cage to get him used to your smell (haven't tried it)? Even if you don't, when you hold him he will smell you and soon get used to you. Hope this helps, thanx to everybody who has answered THIS newbies questions, and on behalf of all the other newbies... You guys have been really great, and cornsnakes.com is one of my fav. sites now! Is that sad? lol