I'll have to throw in that a lot of times it's not the bite that causes the reaction from humans, it's the speed of the action and the primal (?) idea that it's a snake doing the biting.
I've been bitten enough times by corns, pythons, boas, etc. to consider myself seasoned. Even thought the pain is minimal to non-existent, the heart still starts pumping and the adrenaline hits the system whenever it happens.
Suzanne, I would be one to encourage you to use the gloves if it makes you feel comfortable when handling your strikey snake. Typically they do in fact calm down when they realize it's no use. I have a male amel motley that's been 'strikey' for several months now. He's finally coming out of his habit of striking out the second his cage is opened, but has never bitten once he's being held out of the cage. And no, it's not related to feeding in the cage, as he was like this since day one before he'd ever been fed (was striking out of the deli cup . . . Thanks Rich!! :sidestep: ). Once you're comfortable with the situation, the gloves can come off, and you can 'practice' getting bit if you feel the need!
D80