Hi! I'm new too but I can tell you what I've learned so far... I had mine for about 5 days and I had to pick him up to install a thermostat I got so I put my hand in and he kinda checked it out but was a bit skittish, so I let him slither around for a bit, then on his own he went over my hand so I just kinda scooped him up in the middle then put my other hand up to support the rest. He is quite wiggly but calmed down quickly. Today I had to take him out for a feed and just quick gently grab in the middle and lift but be careful to support the rest or they may panic. I think short but frequent handlings are best for a youngin to get used to you, that's how I think but someone with more experience may correct me here!