There are specific reasons I did not want this picture floating out on message boards: 1, I only had the one picture of the snake, and I knew it was low quality. 2, I only spent a couple minutes at their house, so I had not properly examined the snake to be certain of the species. 3, I just have udder distain for the way internet forums are used in this day and age. But vulgarly against my wishes, my picture was illegally copied and placed in a forum anyway. I put the first picture on facebook specifically cause I only wanted my friends, or at least people I have talked to seeing it. One of the people I had as a “friend” began acting the way people act on a Kingsnake.com forum, certainly not acting as a friend.
I have been a reptile enthusiast for my entire life. I have been catching and working with snakes 30 + years. I have been an internet enthusiast since about 1993, so naturally I was on reptile forums from their very beginning. For years I found them entertaining and valuable. At some point, all of that changed and they became a place for insults and belittling. A place where people would talk in a manner they would never dream of talking face to face. Years ago I became disillusioned with message boards and left them behind.
Stephanie continues to say, “I was only asking questions.” Questions begin with who, what, where, how, and why and end with a ? She was not asking questions, she was making inflammatory statements. First, she posted, that the picture is photoshopped. Ok, I am not one that takes being called a lair well. Next she starts writing me and telling me that a friend of hers has ID’ed it as a rat snake….from seeing the one blurry picture….a picture she already proclaimed to be a fake. During this, she tells me that she cant afford the snake, but feels entitled to better pictures of it. Now, I didn’t cuss her, or immediately block her. I was quite polite in letting her know she was being offensive. Rather then apologize, as I expected, she tells me to count myself lucky that she was doing this in private and not out in public. In short, she was acting the way people act on internet forums, being that I have decided I do not want to be part of that behavior, I did block her. I no longer wanted to hear anything she had to say, or allow her to look at pictures meant only for friends to see.
Some of you say that you know people that had a negative run in with me. If the people you know immediately became insulting or called me lair, you damn right, there experience with me would be a negative one. For some reason, it has become socially acceptable to question people’s integrity on a message board. To me, I see no difference in that and saying it to my face. If you call me a lair on a message board, what is the difference in saying it to my face? I am going to take offense either way and I am not going to suffer it well. In short, you are not going to talk all this crap on the internet, then smile and shake my hand when you see me at a reptile show.
As for you internet detectives that went to all the trouble to search out old pictures, compare the reflections, count the scales on the head, I take enjoy in knowing you now look especially stupid. The pictures are now up on my facebook.
To the ones of you that noticed the keeled scales, good job. I had lens replacement surgery few months ago, and still have terrible eye sight. The first time I saw the snake, I couldn’t tell. Second time I used a magnifying glass and sure enough they are keeled. Turns out that it isn’t a corn.
So, the photos are up. Since its not a corn, not sure how many of you will care, but if you do you can go to
www.ChuckHurd.com and access my facebook. I will be happy to ad you and also, I will be happy to answer any questions that you have. That is, if you ask a question. If you call me a lair and somehow how classify that as a question, I will be happy to remove you.
Look forward to talking to any of you that are interested!