3. You are exceedingly rude and your tone is way out of line.
I've seen much ruder comments on this forum. There are two issues that spark very emotional debates - cohabbing and feeding live. The people who actually try to have a discussion about this, those that disagree with the "majority" opinion here, end up being called much worse names than this. "Crap Keeper" springs to mind, and I could find MANY more if I wanted to take the time to compile them.
And, to point it out again, if you look at Kathy Love's opinion on this, you find that it's not so black and white. She has cohabbed on occasion. So the pious people here have "proven" that cohabbing is bad? I would take Kathy's opinion first.