I switched to using duct tape because the aluminum tape just doesn't stick very well, AND, even tho hubby made ABSOLUTELY sure everything was sealed up (even cut ends), the aluminum tape carried a CHARGE thru it! I kept telling him that when I'd touch the heat tapes to make sure they're working okay, I'd get a "buzz" going thru my arm! (Nothing bad, mynd you, but you could still FEEL it!) He'd tell me that was impossible because there's nothing exposed to make a connection, but it was there!
I would say, depending how high you keep your heat tapes, duct tape would be just fine. People use it on plenty of applications that get some heat (think about how that stuff heats up in the sun, after all!)
I think if you're flexwatt doesn't get over, say, 95-100 degrees on a regular basis, the glue should be just fine.