I am a diabetic and I will say that the lancet that I use to prick my finger to test my blood actually hurts more than any snake bite that I have had. I remember when I got started with corns, my daughter had this little neonate that would hiss, puff, strike, shake it's tale, -- just do everything it would to seem big and nasty. I was deathly afraid of that thing to the point I would wear leather gloves. (For some fun sometime, why don't you put on a pair of leather gloves and try picking up a few month old snake that is slithering around at light speed) It really was humilating because I had no problem getting my 3 foot red tail boa out, but for some reason, this little guy just unerved me.
After a few weeks of causing the snake and myself a whole lot of stress, I finally said, forget this, how bad can it be and picked it up with a gloveless hand. It bite me three times, and I just stood there amazed, after that I haven't been hesitant to pick up any size snake and I just take the bites if they come. Most of the time they never come. Just be careful of washing your hands and don't give them an excuse to think you are prey.
After I took those three hits from the baby, he never has tried to bite me again. He threatened from time to time with coiling and puffing, but I think after he saw he didn't get his way, he resigned to the fact that I wasn't trying to eat him and he would be fine. Now, he can be handled without a hint of a problem. It is just like with kids, if you back off and give in to them, they'll keep trying to push you farther and farther thinking they will get their own way. Even if you have one trying to bite you, handle it, don't put it down unless things get really out of hand. If you give in, you'll just keep having a harder and harder time with it.