Ok so the full story:
Last year i bred 2 females...a virgin creamsicle stripe no known hets I bought as a 10g hatchling, and a proven breeder sold to me as an ultramel anery (but questioned). I wanted to test the ultramel by breeding her with a homo amel snake, and only had a yearling butter stripe male. I witnessed one hookup, with no evidence, and then he could never do it again. I gave up on him, figured he didn't/couldn't do the job and bred her to the hypo lav (they bred several times). Those eggs were laid in a time frame that made either father a possible, and those babies looked JUST like the hypo lavs babies from this year (ultramels/ultramel aneries or hypos/ghosts??). The second female, the cream stripe, was a virgin. After seeing the hypo lavs babies from this year, I assumed he was NOT the father of the amel stripes, but when I went to put that in my notes for last year, realized she was not the female that was bred to the butter stripe too. So while I won't say I never put a different male in with the cream stripe, I only used observed, short period matings and the hypo lav is the only one who bred her (though I'll probably wind up writing this off to i messed up somewhere since the stats are way too off). So this year, thinking the hypo lav was the father of ALL the babies last year, I bred him to a snow stripe (his "proven hets" from 2010), and am only getting what i must presume are ghosts and hypos, in even numbers. So he's definitely het anery, and I find it easier to reconcile the snow stripe being homo hypo than the hypo lav being an ultra lav (though there's been some question to that as well).
And I guess I should also mention that the snow stripe was a virgin I've raised from a hatchling, and due to learning from last year's mistakes, will never put a second male with a female.
(attached pics of last year's babies that look pretty much identical to this years, and a pic of the hypo lav...not a very good pic but i've since sold him and don't have any better ones).