Lauren, no need to apologize. Did some reflecting today, so I'm just going to ramble here. Having had several businesses, lived in many towns, seen lots of printed publications.
In my home town community (offline) , personX's pawn shop, their name is on the cover outside. They put it there. I do not see signs that say "Hay Xguy" or 'What so-N-so meant' signs along the road. Sometimes I see a 'Happy Birthday Dingbaticus maximus' sign in a front yard. As far as calling anyone out text, It is a seldom seen event or incident or whatever that is.
Newspapers have classifieds sections where a missing individual might be found...
Craigslist has their policies, one cannot post an ad titled to someone by their name, but persons writing an ad can say "to the guy who was looking at my pangolin in March".
The www is a distinctively different; there are hundreds of thousands of "online communities"; discussion boards, chatter forums, and so forth.
With MySpace or Facebook or whatever, a person can post verbage or pics on someone elses page, but the someone else can edit them off if they do not agree with the content.
The majority of the sites I've seen do not call anyone out by name. If there's a scammer in the community, the thread title does not say "beware of Name". It more likely says Beware of Scammers...
Many of the discussion boards are about people looking for help regarding a specific issue.
This crazy reptile breeders dealers thing is different from the other forums/disgussion boards of other subjects. People have names, more than just a company name or a website name. Everyone seems to know everyone. There seems to be no personal private information in the community. Every individual objectified. It seems necessary to an extent. There are many scams and taken people in all business realms. I don't know if its any better /worse in herptoculture, but HerpeVille's still a fairly small community compared to antiques/collectibles/pizza parlours/or used car lots. As such: closely knitted. Unlike anything I've encountered elsewhere.
If a reporter contacts their victim in advance and asks for an interview; at least the story subject isn't suprised when they see they're a title. I guess I just need to get used to the walls around me being torn down. I'll have to adapt. It is the way of the herpe business.
As I waddled around the www putting together the reptile dealers webpage, I saw a lot of persons names out there, but in most cases, their names were their own, they have their name incorporated into their website name, or on their site's homepage. That is their choice; they control that. And on numerous sites, theres a Links page, which often includes other persons names, but the page title is not someone elses name. It seems to be mostly this site, and Faunaclassifieds, where I run into the most instances of seeing a persons name as part of a thread title.
Every community has its own unique style, flavor, distinctivitititity, whatever thats called. I suppose while staying outward focused , looking at all those and this site, it never dawned on me that one day, my name would be on a thread title. Widdle weazley me. And yet there it is. It was bound to happen sometime. I guess what I'm saying here Lauren is Thanks for Doing that. Better someone I have admiration for/of to do it then, well, someone who, um, i better leave it at that.
The creepy, hairy hand in the one pic kinda disturbed me....
Hypertrichosis?
thank you for taking the focus of attention away from my post.....
Nice one mate.
Always happy to be a mate's tool.