well as for the feeding, it sounds like you feed her in her viv?
if thats the case, many people would suggest that you feed her in a seperate container. there are probably a couple different reasons, but i think the biggest ones are, when eating in her viv, she could accidently get some of the bedding. which could cause digestive problems. another reasoning i would think is, when you stick your hand in, she could think she's going to eat everytime and possibly strike at you. if they kno when you stick your hand in that it is to most likely being handled they will not strike.
so i suggest you would try to feed her in a carboard box, or even a critter carrier like i use.
oh and ive seen quite a few people from great britain etc on this board. so i think you have some friends from over there. lol