In my world, adults discuss differences, children hold grudges and pout. Upon finding out (third hand mind you) that there was apparently a problem with my behavior several years ago, I made numerous attempts to enter a dialogue with him regarding what fences needed to be mended. I was met with what you call apathy and I call childish silence and behind the scenes mockery. And yes, as far as I'm concerned it's water under the bridge at this point. You asked for clarification.
I'll leave that to others more inclined to discuss genetic modes of inheritence.
D80
Brent,
oh really? are you ready to talk to me again then? You are trying to hold Chuck to a high standard, yet you don't live it yourself! I have also tried hard to mend the fence between you and I and you won't allow it and totally ignore me just the same! I find your argument here to be totally ironic!
Time has gone by, and instead of letting dust settle and moving on, here are two individuals trying HARD to stir up the past again. Move on to both of you! The scuffle was over very long ago. Why can't you let it drop? And stop pouting cause someone has decided they can't cross that bridge just yet? Just move on.
And it's a total lie that Chuck hates all people who post here. And in no form does he or Connie spend all their time hating this site or the admin of this site. People are bound to have rifts now and then. Good grief, how come we can get in battles within the family and forgive and forget. Why can't we carry that over to our relationships with people OUTSIDE the immediate family and forgive and forget? No wonder the divorce rate is so high in this country! Too many people can't get along. When the fact is you'll NEVER agree on everything. But that doesn't mean you should put up walls! And if a wall is there, well by golly, take the upper road and move on!
So this is my plee to all concerned, stop the bashing, this s pathetic that old scabs are being reopened! Chuck and Connie are not the villians a few are trying to make them out to be. Nor are they perfect angels as no one is!
Brent I'm sorry your still ignoring me, but it doesn't mean my life is over. I still have friends. And even though you might or might not hate me, whatever, I still consider you a highly respected corn snake breeder. I have animals of yours and never fail to tout you as a great breeder. But if your going to stand here and try to say that oh, this person is being mean and won't forgive and forget, well here's a big finger pointing right at you saying you are no better! But I have long forgiven such a mess and am willing and hopeful that you would too. We might not see eye to eye but I'd rather have you as a friend. My wall is down, and has been down. Why don't you take down yours?