Okeetees bred for the look but without the bloodlines should be called "Okeetee Phases", but I'm sure that most people serious about breeding nice Okeetees use locality blood.
Abbott's and wild line locality.. there's no question there. You have an awesome Okeetee!!
Now, I have a normal corn who looks a lot like yours. She has some sweet borders on her, and her colors are great. She is NOT out of Okeetee lines to my knowledge, so I'll call her a Normal, maybe an Okeetee Phase, but not an Okeetee. lol... ya I can see how it can be a little confusing.
I think that one of the problems is that for awhile a lot of people were calling their run of the mill normals Okeetees. Although it may seem harmless, enough of this misrepresentation hurts the corn snake industry's standard of morphs AS WELL AS the keeper. There's a much more eloquently explained sentence about this somewhere, but it basically goes like this, "if you lower your standards in order to call sub par animals something they're not, you're really lowering your own reputation, because no one is going to seek out a breeder to get a sub par example of a morph."
Another problem was that people were using the label of Okeetee as a marketing ploy. A new comer would post a picture of their "awesum new Oaaketee!!1", and the community would inform them that what they had most likely wasn't a locality Hunt Club Okeetee or an Abbott's Okeetee.
Also, I'm sure that the casual keeper cannot know how much effort is put into obtaining wild specimens, selecting them for color, and line breeding pure beautiful locality animals. I'm sure if I'd put forth this effort, I'd get a little peeved at someone putting the same name on a random -who-knows-where-it-came-from Normal.
Not all Okeetees are actually really beautiful red and orange black bordered snakes. Being a visual community though, the idea of what an "Okeetee" is has evolved over the years.
Anyway, I think your girl is pretty cool. I really like that her saddles wrap around her whole body near her neck. She has some pretty cool aberrant spots. Her colors are great, and her borders look pretty cool!
I know what you mean about the "disappearing borders". It seems like borders on the top half of a snake appear smaller as they grow.. hers look good though! I'm sure she'll look better and better as she grows.