Sherry,
I still want to know how you lose a 24" boa in a paper towel roll. That just does NOT make sense. If I opened up one of my tubs and didn't see a snake (and with corns I usually don't), I would look 1st in it's fav hide, 2nd in the other hides, then I would take everything OUT and go through the aspen. That's all just simple common sense. He said he didn't think the boa could fit in the paper towel roll . . . then why was it in there? Was it cut? Did he pick it up? Even if it somehow squished itself into an uncut paper towel roll, wouldn't it be noticeably heavy to lift? So he posts to the forum that he needs help finding his boa? He has searched his house, without bothering to thoroughly search the TUB?!? The story is just too incredible to be believed! Now, do incredible things happen sometimes? YES! But every time you turn around RA has some crazy story, they don't add up, they don't make sense . . . Sure there can be occasional miscommunication, but every post you submit? Puleeeeze . . . His stories change every other day, he has different animals every time you turn around. Do you really believe it?
He has posted here several times about animals dying. If this is true, it is serious. Anyone who is taking good care of their animals shouldn't have so many dying/sick/lost. That is what makes people ANGRY with him :realhot: and with good reason. IF his stories are even 1/2 true he should not be keeping animals. PERIOD. However, personally, I think he's made them up to get attention. If RA is doing this for attention, he is getting it. Unfortunately for some kids negative attention is better than NO attention. If he wants to continue to solicit negative attention from this forum, and people want to keep giving it to him, okay. Initially I found RA very annoying, but over time I've actually come to see the entertainment value - sort of like watching stories on TV. LOL Assuming it's made up. I shudder to think if it's not.
And you ask why people can't just be nice and play along . . . well, the truth is that it's nobody on this forum's job or responsibility to babysit RA. And no matter what, he keeps coming back for more. You say people are afraid to post here cause they are afraid they will get flamed, yet the one person you say is getting flamed is behaving in a manner that he deserves to be called up on. :shrugs: Everybody here has been so nice and helpful to me, but I try to act like an adult and be respectful and considerate. There is quite a bit of teasing that goes on, but from what I can see most of it is really just in fun.
I think it is nice of you to try to stick up for RA, however, before getting on a soapbox you really should weigh the facts of the situation. I feel sorry for him too, sure I do, but he does need to get his act together IF he wants to be treated with respect.