Kokopelli
Resident Boa Fanatic
I'm afraid she is right, maybe that is the attraction.
Dude, -14-.
i LOVE how people tell me how to act when i go into the service. i think i know alot about the service and how to act. all my friends are marines my dad my grandpa my uncles were all marines. i think i know how to act. if people were never in the service please do not tell me what will happen. i already know.
Well... I've served for three years in the Israeli military... be prepared to be accountable for every single misshap- even if it is not really your fault...
I remember being screamed at in Tank commanding course by my commander... there was a technical problem in the brakes on the tank- and due to it the tank slid forward- basically moved when no one signaled for it to move... I had to push down on the brakes with my whole body, sweating insanely for like 5 minutes... it was lucky I managed to lock the brakes eventually...
So I came out of the tank, and explained it would not lock- the commander screamed at me, shouting I didn't try hard enough even if I am drenched with sweat.
Of course, I wasn't punished for it... but I somehow doubt you will restrain yourself enough in such a situation...
Many people said that being an adult means learning to exert self restraint... well, I wish that would have been the case, but it's not... there are many impulsive people out there, who are overly aggressive and to be perfectly honest- dangerous.
It doesn't matter if you're going to join the army or not... it is a choice you have to make for yourself. You are very busy declaring how no one has any control over you, and how you deserve respect... respect is earned and willingly given... you can't take it... unless you want to be a criminal that is...
You hope to have children one day I imagine... do you want to burst out like that on one of them? on your girlfriend maybe?
If that's the kind of person you're okay with being... that's quite alright, I am not in the position to judge- just sharing my opinion that it's something I wouldn't want to do myself.
No one never gets angry... but I can honestly say I don't assault people- physically or verbally... if I get really ticked off I can reduce them to ashes eloquently(and I do not need to swear to do it).... but that's rare.
Like it or not... the majority of young people aren't taken to the police... most customers are welcomed in K-mart and I imagine at least most of them are satisfied enough to continue putting their money there...
The reality you experience is not the norm, the world is not filled with cowards and you are not the only "brave soul that stands up against the oppressors".
I wasn't there, I do believe though that it would be in your best interest to try and find a productive way to calm yourselves... it is quite easy to find a reason to pick up a fight... it is a deal harder to know how to channel your energies towards the things that really matter.