My 4 month old corn snake got nervous when my ex tried to take him out of his cage and jumped at him. So my ex decided to throw something at it then he hit the cage and broke the glass. I got a new cage for the snake and ll new decor because I did not want it to get hurt on the glass and got rid of the guy for obvious reasons but now when I try to pick it up it curls up in defense mode. I tried to use a snake hook but it slithers off of it every time I pick it up. I do not want to get bitten because I am pregnant but at the same time I do not want to give it away because I don't know what kind of person it would go to. Any advice?