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snakewispera snr said:
Holly... The spelling issue is easily solved with the spell checker and using google..
Christ, you should see my spelling without it... LOL
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Yeah I do use the spell check and sometimes I type so fast that my spelling is way off. And you should see 500 pages I have on how words are spelled loll. I also look at that too my mom wrote that down for me that is alot of words to wright. :)
 
Hi Holly -

I must have missed something, I haven't been on much today.

It looks like you have decided to stay! Yay! You know, I get to look at an awesome santa cat on the cornsnake forum! lol!

I can tell that you try to do what is right and that has obviously shown through to many people here, spelling correct or not! I

I had a special needs daughter as well, I would have been proud to have seen her come as far as you have. I don't know the extent of your problems, but my daughter had Angelmans Syndrome and died when she was almost from choking on a balloon. She was not able to speak and still in diapers when she passed. I always wondered about how she would do in school and would she get made fun of, etc. She would be 18 now, so it's been a long time but I know your parents must be so proud of you!

Please stay. I've read your signature so many times and it's so true!
 
I dont usually post in these I'm leaving threads but for this one, I am.

Holly, you started off very roughly on this site. You stayed and learned and allowed ppl to know you. I have been watching your posting and have seen it come quite aways since the start. :) But You have to remember something too.... you are Not the only special needs person on the site. :) I also think that a lot of us do have experience with special needs ppl. For me? its my son. He has aspergers syndrome and has a VERY hard time writing and spelling. But he keeps trying! So, I am going to tell you the same thing I tell him. Keep Trying!! Be true to yourself. Dont put yourself down for something you may think you do poorly at, just keep trying. Plus, if you have a question about what someone may have ment about something they said? Ask! :) There are a many good ppl on here that have hearts of gold and are so willing to help with just about any questions you may have. Doesnt have to be snake related either. not all questions are :) I, myself, PM ppl once in awhile to ask questions. Nobody seems to mind and are more than happy to help. I didnt mean to be so long winded but I know how badly you started here and I have also watched how far you have come. We need all the good hearted snakey ppl we can get! Glad you decided to stay and I may not always be around but feel free to pm me anytime :)
 
"...You know, I get to look at an awesome santa cat on the cornsnake forum! lol!..."

I meant to mention that, too. I LOVE that photo!
 
If people on here can tolerate me they will tolerate just about anyone! Glad you're sticking around.
 
Thank you all for your good advise and very nice comments it is very much appreciated I see that I have come far on here. And leaving now will be bad for me I also see I have made alot of friends and caring people. All of you on here without a dout are the most caring and nice people that I have ever come across and I thank you all for that. And ya know I love my Santa kitty too loll. ;)
 
Hey Holly,

As for any disabling conditions, I've come to the conclusion that everybody has at least one, but many have never been diagnosed by a professional. When faced with adversity one can let the emotions control the logic, or one can step back, really think over carefully what is being said, and then decide whether to respond, or decide to not respond at all. We all always have a choice. But sometimes we is drunk.

I guess what I'm getting at is that , for me personally, when faced with adversity, I say something to myself like "Oh well, that's just a part of their disability. Different people, different personalities. No big deal. I can listen without personally absorbing. I have a choice."
On a seperate note, a wise person once who ocassionally posts on this site once wrote me a private sentence, which went something like this: "When I see someone making an @$$ of themselves, I prefer to let them, so everyone can see what that person is like".

I understand where you are coming from, I've been there a few times myself. It's like gas. It will pass.

Thanks for bringing some spice & excitement to this site.
Cheers,
dp
 
dave partington said:
Hey Holly,

As for any disabling conditions, I've come to the conclusion that everybody has at least one, but many have never been diagnosed by a professional. When faced with adversity one can let the emotions control the logic, or one can step back, really think over carefully what is being said, and then decide whether to respond, or decide to not respond at all. We all always have a choice. But sometimes we is drunk.

I guess what I'm getting at is that , for me personally, when faced with adversity, I say something to myself like "Oh well, that's just a part of their disability. Different people, different personalities. No big deal. I can listen without personally absorbing. I have a choice."
On a seperate note, a wise person once who ocassionally posts on this site once wrote me a private sentence, which went something like this: "When I see someone making an @$$ of themselves, I prefer to let them, so everyone can see what that person is like".

I understand where you are coming from, I've been there a few times myself. It's like gas. It will pass.

Thanks for bringing some spice & excitement to this site.
Cheers,
dp
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LOL I had to laugh when you said it is like gas it will pass your right it is like that and thank you for your good advise I appreciate it. :)
 
Holly, as I told you in my PM way back when, you just have to give it some time for the membership to know you and for you to know the membership. By the responses here, it looks like you've made some friends already and have become a fully-fledged part of the CS.com community!
 
Susan said:
Holly, as I told you in my PM way back when, you just have to give it some time for the membership to know you and for you to know the membership. By the responses here, it looks like you've made some friends already and have become a fully-fledged part of the CS.com community!
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Yes I sure have made some friends on here and so glad that I did stay on here this is a very good site I don't want to miss anything. Thank you Susan for your help and support. :)
 
I like reading your posts Holly please keep posting! We are all different and the only thing that is normal is that no one is normal. We are all special!!!
 
:dancer:i agree withBooBoo we are all different apart from the one thing that brings us all together on this site and that is our unconditional love of our snakes gald u are staying holly
 
I love your posts too!! I'm glad you're staying Holly, I didn't want you to leave and you certainly didn't make me feel uncomfortable! :)
 
Hi Holly,

I'm new here (just joined yesterday) so I'm not really familiar with this site, the people on it, etc. But I just want to say that from reading this it seems like you are a very nice person and everyone here agrees too. No one is "normal", what does normal even mean anyways, right? Anyway, I'm glad that you decided to stay here.

-Mike
 
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